Peter's Birth from Nathan's Point of View:
We got the phone call at 6:22 pm on Wednesday December 28th. We had just sat down at Buffalo Wild Wings
with Tyson and Amber Manning to celebrate Tyson’s birthday and eat some spicy
food to help get Alyson into labor. The
RN from Kadlec told us we were at the top of the induction list and to come on
down. We had been put on the “medical
induction” list due to Alyson’s high blood pressure.
We arrived at the hospital at around 7:30. Alyson had hastily scarfed down her wings on
the drive home. They got us situated
into suite 12 at the birth center. Alyson got an IV (which took several
attempts), they gave her a cervical ripening agent, and we went to bed. At around 2 am they came in and started Pitocin. Alyson didn’t really sleep because little
Peter kept moving around and moving away from the fetal heart rate sensor. I on the other hand slept great (Sorry
Alyson, somebody had to sleep for us).
Contractions started suddenly at 6 am, and they were hard
and very frequent. We’re talking two to
three minutes apart. After almost 12
hours from the phone call we were finally on our way. The day nurse came in just after they
started. Her name was Jody, and she was
amazing.
We were able to follow our birth plan to a T for the first
few hours. Alyson would endure the
contractions, I massaged and put pressure on her back, and we were
cruising. I’m not sure if Alyson felt
that way, but I sure did. Alyson kept
switching positions to try to get comfortable. From kneeling on the bed, to standing over the
bed, to side lying, to even sitting on the porcelain throne. She was absolutely amazing and so
strong. Back labor is no joke, and she
handled it like a champ. Sometime after
11am her water broke, and she started to feel the urge to push. She would push with each contraction, but
each time they checked her the baby was still up high. She was dilating, but little Peter wasn’t
dropping down. He was facing backwards,
and was basically hitting the back of his head into Alyson’s spine and not
dropping down through the pelvis.
After over two hours of pushing, Alyson was exhausted, I
didn’t think I could massage or put pressure on her hips any longer (best
forearm workout of my life), and the baby hadn’t dropped. Lisa Garcia, the amazing midwife who was
working with us presented us with two options.
We could try to continue like this, and it would likely end in a
C-section due to Alyson’s physical exhaustion (chicken broth, Jello, and one Italian
ice since 8:00 pm the night before isn’t a whole lot), or we (I wish I could
have had one as well J)
could get an epidural in the hope that Alyson would relax, get some rest, and
baby would drop down naturally. They had
tried placing Alyson in awkward side positions to rotate the baby, but
contractions were too strong for her to stay in them. We opted for the epidural. The anesthesia provider was excellent. When he came in she was already completed
dilated, and they usually don’t do them that late, but he did anyways. It was fast and effective. Alyson was able to lay down, and she passed out
for around two hours. To showcase how exhausted she was, in between
contractions she would fall asleep, even while sitting on the toilet.
When she woke up we got her into a side position and helped
get that boy rotated. Jody coached
Alyson through some contractions to help get her pushing. We were sad that Jody wasn’t able to be there
when he came, but shift change came and we got a new nurse. Lexi was our night nurse. She immediately got Alyson into an even more
extreme position (side lying with one leg in a stirrup, pulling her top hip
across the from of her. After switching
from side to side, Lisa checked Alyson and we had progressed! Peter was closer to coming.
Alyson started pushing again at 7:15 pm. She kept pushing and pushing and
pushing. As we got closer, I got gowned
up with Lisa, and she also called in a couple other nurses and two NICU
nurses. I still remember the surreal
feeling as Alyson had one of her last contractions. Peter’s heart rate monitor started slowing,
his heart rate was dipping with the contraction. On the next contraction she started pushing,
I remember hearing what seemed like an agonizingly slow heartbeat, all the
nurses in the room instinctively looked at the monitor, which showed a fetal
heart rate of 60. All nurses then turned
to Alyson and screamed in unison “PUSH!!!”
It worked! Peter’s head come out,
but then it looked like his shoulder was stuck.
Lexi put some external uterine pressure (fancy way of saying she did a
CPR like compression on Alyson’s stomach) and his shoulders came free, but he still
was so slow to come out! As he came out
I got to catch him, and Lisa took the cord off from around his neck. I held him up in front of Alyson, and he just
sort of laid there limply in my hands.
Lisa immediately said “he needs help.”
I handed Peter to her while she gave me the scissors to cut to cord. I cut it and he was taken over to the
bassinet and two waiting NICU nurses. As
they did their assessment he perked up, and started crying. He was so perfect. I stood over him and cried and cried for a
solid 15 minutes until they were done working on Alyson. Peter was born at 10:15 pm, and our lives
have been changed ever since.
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